I have had a difficult time coming up with something interesting or uplifting to write about. As a writer I would like to pick my own topics and write about what I want to write about but as a writer I have found that if it includes sensitive people, family members, relatives, people that are unable to read something written about themselves or anything less than positive then I might get the cold shoulder or the silent treatment.
Human beings are really strange. We love to judge and tell others what is not working, what they are doing wrong and what we don't like about them (to others, not to their faces) but we don't want anyone to know we are doing that. There is this human component that keeps us from blurting out what we do or do not like about other people. We only tell them the good things.
If a dog runs up to another dog and sniffs and doesn't like what they see, they don't play nice-nice until they walk away - they bare their teeth, growl, bark and snarl and sometimes attack the animal they do not like. If we act like dogs we are called (and I refer to women) bitches, snarky, catty, opinionated, judgemental, grating, confrontational and all sorts of other not so nice words that are not very complimentary of women.
I have found that when I was in my 20's I could be a real bitch. When I was in my 30's I could be a real bitch too. But having children has mellowed me some. Partly due to not wanting to invest a lot of energy in stuff that I think is stupid and not wanting to get sucked into dysfunctional family stuff and staying out of it. But when that dysfunction lands in my living room and stays here for a pretty lengthy period of time it is really hard to ignore it. (have I mentioned that I do enjoy complaining at length instead of being a bitch?)
I will say this: the dysfunction isn't welcome back. Somehow and sometime soon I will have to address that but it isn't welcome back and it isn't something I want anything to do with. I've been in therapy for years to work at identifying my problems and fix them and so should you. If you are not willing to do so - I'm not willing to be around you.